March Sex Tip

Bring Sexy Fun Back

Responsibility and mind-blowing sex are like oil and water...they just don't mix. Thing is, sex is an important component to a healthy relationship. So how can a hard working couple bring fun sex back into their relationship?

Responsibility and mind-blowing sex are like oil and water...they just don't mix.

It's easy to understand with everything going on in our day-to-day lives, why sex goes to the bottom of the to-do list.

Thing is, sex is an important component to a healthy relationship. So how can a hard working couple bring fun sex back into their relationship?

It's my experience that busy people don't have time to read the long answer, so here is the quick and easy on what you two can start doing today.

Don’t wait: act now

Sexual impasses don’t get better with time. The longer you wait to initiate something fun, new and exciting the longer old habits linger and get in the way of creating something fun, new and exciting. 

Talk to each other about you 'can' do (http://trinaread.com/articles/110)

Complaining about how your sex life sucks is the biggest libido zapper. If you don’t talk about what’s going on in your sex life in a positive way, the situation will never change.

Understand the problem

Acknowledge (and appreciate) your partner’s dissatisfactions (http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/stress-and-sex/201109/sexual-satisfaction-teachable-skill) in order to understand why they’ve stopped reaching out sexually.

Separate the nonsexual issues from the sexual ones

What are the facts—not emotions—around any sexual challenges? What are the reasons for the anger, resentment or withholding? Until these issues are dealt with and resolved, it's almost impossible to connect in a deep sexual way. If you're at an impasse, seek out a counselor's help. (http://www.aasect.org/directory.asp)

Teach each other new sexual techniques

Learn how to give each other pleasure in new and exciting ways. Communicate what you want. Best way to start is to separately write a list of things you want to try and then let the other read it. Bonus points to those couples who take turns 'surprising' each other with what's on their partner's list.

Feel the FixSation difference and discover how fabulous

  it is to share a ‘we-gasm’ with your partner. 

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February Sex Tip: Touching Means a Happier You

Touching is one of the easiest ways to create intimacy outside of the bedroom. It's easy, F-R-E-E, and makes us feel good. So why in heaven's name do we stop?

How do you know a newbie couple? They're wrapped around each other like pretzels. And it's one of the reasons newbie sex is fantastic; as the abundance of couple touch means they're  already jacked-up and good to go when it comes to bedroom time.

Touching is one of the easiest ways to create intimacy outside of the bedroom.

Unfortunately, the busier a woman gets the more likely she is to delegate touching to bedroom time. BIG mistake. (Read more on the importance of touch)

Touching heals, soothes, and helps us feel connected during the good and not-so-good times in our relationship. (Read about the power of touch)

It's easy, F-R-E-E, and makes us feel good. So why in heaven's name do we stop?

Affectionate touch every day is a simplest way for women to stay connected to her body; as well as it keeps an intimate bond between the couple. That way when sex is initiated, touch is no longer a sensory overload for her.

Make it your goal to affectionately touch your partner every day and see where it leads. I'll bet my mortgage you'll be much happier as a person and as a couple.

It's just that simple. 

Feel the FixSation difference and discover how fabulous

  it is to share a ‘we-gasm’ with your partner. 

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